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Other Info:
A great deal of thought has gone into my membership here. I am living a good long life, with many joyous memories. I have been a battler through much of it and become stronger in soul year by year, but weaker in expectations. For most of my younger years there has never been both time and finances to be a truly responsible parent, and my aversion to seeing any child in pain or sorrow has made parenthood just undesirable for me. But my mind wanders to the long-term…. the very long term into the future…
I am willing to be a sperm donor though I know I am past an ideal age. I am interested in fatherhood now, but not parenting. I would like the process to be as simple as possible. I have no diseases or genetic conditions, a non-smoker and never done drugs. Clean and introverted living all my life, I am willing to have no or very minimal contact with the child, but all these things are to be discussed of course. I am not 'sporty', not a ‘party person’, but have a better than average intelligence, sense of humour and an affinity for numbers, words and art. I can make people laugh but more importantly, I make people around me smile. Life is for living and cherishing.
There are circumstances in my life where direct co-parenting is just not an option for now. I believe in maturity, responsibility, intimacy, love by touch and example, and anger-free communication, and can only hope a child can have a mother or couple that can raise a little one in such an environment. If I can help a woman to be a mother, but a loving mother who values intimacy, touch and a kind word in the ear of a child for all time, then I know I can be happy with my contribution.
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