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Hello out there :-)
This may be an unusual personals profile, but I believe that there are so many alternative family situations that can work well in these modern times. People who are genuinely wanting to become parents are looking at the many options.
My first choice in parenting, has always been permanent foster care/view to adoption, and of a baby up to around 18months. Babies in our very own city, need loving families and the current system for placement appears to be based on healthy, progressive and child centred approaches, which makes it even more appealing.
I have been highly educated through the application process with a few different foster agency's on the ins and outs of this beautiful choice. I have found that as a single person, the chances of being approved are very slim as many couples are applying. As a "co-parent" though.....☺️this would be perfect, we would probably be approved quite quickly. We would be approved particularly quickly if you happen to be of aboriginal or tsa decent, as loving families for kids that are culturally appropriate are desperately needed through local adoption at the moment. I am non aboriginal and have family/close friends who are.
I am open to coparenting with a gay man from any race or background.
My family is of a mixed racial and multi lingual background, which I am very proud of.
For me personally, I don't want to bring another child into the world through becoming pregnant, just to suit my desires of being a parent, but as a second option, I am open to becoming pregnant.
I want my co-parent to be a man who has a great relationship with his family. This is very important to me. I want to be joining a loving healthy family who support each other, and who will support us in our choices and enjoy being our child's grandparents/aunts/uncles etc.
I am a proud gay women, and believe that kids who grow up in rainbow family's can thrive and succeed in a happy balanced loving homes.
I am not looking for a romantic intimate relationship, obviously... but instead thinking to work toward a great, close friendship/family type coparent relationship with the child's "Dad", with the child's best interest in mind.
This kind of relationship obviously would take time to discuss and develop, sharing ideas along to way to get to know each other and see if it may work.
I am a friendly, loving, balanced woman who enjoys the simple things in life, nature, the beach, art and family life, amongst other things. I'm deeply spiritual (not religious) and enjoy making the most out of life.
The way I look at it, is that plenty of "couples" break up, and eventually become successful coparents (both sometimes enjoying more free time for themselves now having a co parent to share responsibilities.
This would be not much different in some ways.
The world is changing, and creativity and getting in touch with our hearts true desire, I feel is the most important thing in life, so I am here to put mine out there :-) If it's meant to be....it will be :-)
Love to chat!
Grace
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