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Hello there. Thank you for taking the time to read our message. We are a mature couple – he is 49 and she is 52. We were married a little later in life, 2006 to be specific, and although we wished and tried very hard, we have been unable to have children. He is an only child and feels very strongly about continuing his legacy; she would dearly love to have 2 children of her own but has accepted that this is no longer possible. We have checked into surrogacy and this solution is best done out of country which is both difficult to arrange/trust and costly. As our ages are creeping up, we are feeling the pressure of the clock upon us.
We have a lot to offer children and extended family members. We are intelligent, young at heart, outgoing and adventurous people. We are reasonable and logical, open about our lives, and have a lot of life lessons to share with excitement. We are liberal thinkers and are not judgemental.
We believe a really awesome way of meeting our desire to parent, share, and continue our legacies , and be part of a unique family unit is to donate sperm to a mature lesbian couple or single lesbian. Although 49, the “sperm dad” (sperm donor) has an amazing genetic background, rich with highly driven pioneers over many generations, great intelligence, successful and resourceful in nature. The “sperm mom” (wife of sperm donor) also comes from a genetic background that is highly driven, successful, and artistic. We would like to be involved in the life of the child (or children should we be so lucky!) to a reasonable extent and understand that the lesbian couple would be the primary caregivers. Would we hope to be involved in significant events and milestones and have visitations and share time. We believe it is best to write a parenting agreement before pregnancy occurs and we would contribute financially to the child as well. This, too, would be included in the agreement.
It would be great to share this unique family unit – just think of all the support we can lend to each other. Think of how much love and support the child/ren will have. What an awesome arrangement it could be. It feels good to know that there will be somebody around to help us when we are elderly; someone to share time with.
If you are a lesbian couple that has been considering such an arrangement, we would love to hear from you. We are able to do a reasonable amount of travelling although, it would be best for everybody if all parties lived and remained in close proximity to each other. We look forward to hearing from you.
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