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Other Info:
I have wanted to settle down and have kids for as long as I can remember.
I am clean and healthy, no family history of any kind of hereditary illness, birth defects, physical disability, obesity, or even plain simple Male-pattern Baldness!!! no std's, no other kids, I have a very high IQ - (well above mensa level - although I have no wish to be a member), I don't smoke, only drink socially, never take drugs, and I am a vegetarian.
I will have as much involvement as you want. Being a Thoughtful person is kinda my "Default Mode". I am naturally a VERY kind and caring person, and I have an awful lot of love to give. I will always be on the end of a phone for you, and happy to help out during the pregnancy, and be as present and as involved as you are comfortable with.
I will do anything from massaging your ankles during pregnancy, being present at the birth, and babysitting! I'm not squemish, I am fully willing to help as much as I can, even if it's your wish to have a home birth with a birthing pool! I am qualified in first-aid, Would love to train as a Paramedic, I can teach Meditation and healing, I cook well, and it is my dream to travel and meet people from all over the world, help projects like unicef, and assist in disaster management.
With the hope being Full and Regular contact, I DO really want to experience conceiving the child NATURALLY. Otherwise I fear I will always feel a bit of an outsider (in terms of my connection with you and the child).
I am prepared to put the work in throughout your ovulation! and regardless of any future circumstances, will be available if you want siblings by the same father.
I am very open minded, and there is not a prejudiced bone in my body. We will have acceptance from my family too, my parents are very candid and forward thinking and know of my strong desire to have children. They will definitely understand me helping someone who feels the same way to have children. So you can be sure that there will always be options to help out with babysitting!
My younger sister already has children of her own, who I regularly look after, (2 boys - ages 2 & 4) and my gorgeous Nephews are one of the highlights of my life!
So Just to explain my reasons for being here...
If you want to create a child WITH me, then I DEFINITELY wish to be involved in the conception, as fully and as naturally as possible. My compassionate and caring nature will naturally make me want to help as much as I can, so you don't have to face the pregnancy and birth alone. I also have plenty to share with a child, and a partner, lots to teach, fun and laughs to have, and love to give.
I sincerely hope the way I feel makes sense to you, as it is definitely NOT that I just want to have sex with women!!!!!!!!
As many of the young women on here have said, I could go out, get drunk, meet an easy girl in a night club and have sex any time, But I don't want to do that.
This is about really wanting a baby, and wanting to find someone who wants the same thing. Someone I can talk to sensibly, sober, ask questions and trust. And it's important that they are clean, not a drug user or someone with STD's, and aren't going to have an abortion or bring an unwanted pregnancy into the world or have to put it up for adoption. I know that if I was a woman I would be a really maternal one, But I'm a man, I can't carry the baby, but being a part of producing one is the closest I can get. I REALLY want it to feel special, I really want to be part of the Experience of making a baby. I really hope the women out there can understand that feeling?
Finally, I only forsee myself helping out VERY few people on here. Your children will not have the Hundreds of siblings (that may end up unknowingly dating one another one day!!! YUCK) that some donors on here will give you.
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