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Other Info:
I am a single, intelligent woman who is fiercely independent. I have not met the right person for marriage and/or a family... and I'd rather have a child on my own terms than to rush a relationship for the wrong reasons. I paid off my mortgage this year and feel I am financially stable enough to support a child -- the next big step in my life I wish to fulfill. I just turned 40 and would like to move forward in this endeavour sooner than later.
I am moving to Ontario hopefully in 2015 and am willing to potentially travel for donation purposes. Those who are willing to travel to donate, please don't contact me seeking freebie trips. The goal here is to create life, not babymake your way across North America. At least I hope. 'Cause that's just... yikes. However, I am willing to chip in and reimburse for the right donor of course! (The reason for writing this is because I created my profile and had INSTANT messages from people seeming to seek that very thing.)
I live on a hobby farm and can offer a child a life of adventure and wonder, one that will teach them the facts of life, instill strong work ethic and offer plenty of exercise, sunshine and fresh air. I have horses and dairy goats, as well as cats and dogs. Eventually, I'd like to branch into aquaponics and raise my own fish for personal consumption as well as chickens. I love the idea of raising my own food to be happy and healthy. Afterall, you are what you eat!
I'm open to a few possible methods for donation. First preference is AI, second I guess is NI for the right person. I'm not suggesting NI just to get laid, 'cause again... yikes. My hope is that you don't want that either. I will be tested for full clearance, I would require a match to be as well. I would hope to message first on here and then move to skype or something to have a video call to confirm identity and gain an idea of each other's personalities etc. No pressure, though!!!
I put large on the profile because I admit that I need to lose weight and I'd rather err on the side of having someone pleasantly surprised. It became an issue largely in part due to medications I take to prevent and treat migraines, one of the genetic issues I'd like to avoid in a match so as to hopefully give the child a good start in life.
I would prefer to have legal documents prepared that explain our expectations, as legally binding as possible. I would wish sole custody but want to give the child the option to speak to their biological father after a designated age, should they wish to know more about their roots. I do NOT want, expect nor will pursue any financial support. Ever. The documents will outline that.
HOWEVER, all of the above paragraph being said, I am open to co-parenting with the right person. It really just depends on click. Ideally, it'd be a situation where we get along well and have things in common. I am not on here seeking a relationship but I do believe that co-parenting requires a level of friendship to overcome obstacles.
Genetically, I would like to match with someone who is mentally and physically healthy. As mentioned above, preferably someone with no familial history of migraines.
My preferences (in random order) are: (just a guideline!)
HEIGHT: tall (5'10" and up)
INTELLIGENCE: smart (degree not required but nice)
HAIR COLOUR: blonde, brown, black (my dad is a ginger so I'm a carrier... sorry, no redheads!)
EYE COLOUR: blue, green
RELIGION: I don't care, it's not genetic
SENSE OF HUMOUR: a must, a child that is too serious would disown me :p
PERSONALITY: I'd prefer someone positive and generally happy (nature/nurture and all that)
I am of irish, british, swedish and norwegian background.
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